so powerful
so sorrowful
such nonsense
yet invincable
errors made
dues thought paid
likes to haunt
my nights and days
two daughters
lives still very new
for me to say
it’s all on you
brings guilt
each day
from miles away
i feel the pull
should we have stayed
though unfulfilled
with life that way
do they feel i ran away?
a mother now lies
in the grave
cause in my care
i finally caved
turned broken back
on promises made
life with sister
not a fit
six months passed
and that was it
eternal guilt
refusing to fade
choices chosen
choices made
friendships gone
that lasted years
cut the lines
shed the tears
some returned
some stayed lost
some great change
comes at great cost
have i lived a selfish life
could i be a better wife
better mother
better friend
better giver
all around
guilt weighs heavy
on my heart
i wish that it
and i
could part
but guilt’s
not going anywhere
it’s like a heavy cloak
i wear
wish that i
could cast it off
forget my failures
ignore the loss
free myself
from its great weight
seek more love
release self-hate
fuck off!, guilt
i’d like to scream
rip off that cloak
tear at its seams
i’ve done the best
i could have done
imperfect world
imperfect one
maybe the years
will lessen the load
free me from guilt
fuck off, as it’s told
but for now
i’ll carry it forth
try to do better
remember self-worth
and seek a life focused
away from such hurt
Author: Anne Celano Frohna
I have been writing for as long as I could hold a pencil in hand and would not feel complete without it.
And I actually made a meager living at it (and as an editor) for 25 years.
I worked for newspapers and magazines, in graphic arts and advertising, and wrote several local history books.
But I have also taught English in Japan, been a Nanny/family chef in Italy, worked in and for museums, was an Airbnb Superhost for four years, as well as an Etsy shop owner, where I sold vintage items I found over the years at thrift stores and yard sales.
After moving to Arizona with my family in 2010, I completed a series of different writing projects, including two books of creative non-fiction:
Just West of the Midwest: a comedy (Based on journals I kept during my two years as an English teacher in rural Japan.)
Within Close Range: short stories of an American Childhood (Short stories and poems about growing up as the middle of five children in suburban Chicago.)
But in the past few years, I have found my voice in poetry.
I am a mother of two wonderful girls, Eva (26) and Sophia (24) and wife to one wonderful husband, Kurt.
In 2023, with our girls grown and off on their own, my husband and I packed up our things and moved to the tip of Italy’s heel, to the Salento region, where I continue to work on my poetry, as well as a new fiction project, and indulge in my passion for mosaics - all of which you can view on my Instagram page @ acfrohna.
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